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Why your Hinge profile is gaslighting you (and no, it’s not your photos)
You finally have a “good hair day,” you get a friend to snap a photo that actually looks like you (but, you know, the rested version of you), and you update your prompts with just the right amount of…
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Why modern dating feels like a LinkedIn interview (and how to fix it)
I recently sat through a first date that was so clinical I almost asked the guy for his tax returns and a list of professional references. “So, what does a typical day-to-day look like for you?” he asked, leaning…
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Your “emotional capacity” isn’t an excuse to be a jerk
It’s hard to stay mad at a guy who tells you he doesn’t have the ‘emotional capacity’ to listen to your work drama.
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When Mr. “I’ve Never Felt This Way Before” is actually just stalling for time
Let’s talk about the “soft launch” of emotional unavailability. When Mr. ‘I’ve Never Felt This Way Before’ treats a request for a Saturday night plan three weeks away like you’ve asked him to co-sign a mortgage.
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If he’s “hot online but cold in person,” you aren’t dating a man—you’re dating an algorithm
If he’s hot online but cold in person, you aren’t dating a man; you’re dating a social media algorithm that occasionally wears a grey hoodie. And honestly? The algorithm is winning.
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My boyfriend has a girl best friend and I really don’t like it
Let’s talk about dating someone who has a close friend of the opposite sex, especially when that friend is a big part of their life. If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a guy who has a girl…















